share. I’ve felt no interest or ability to enjoy anything for the past 30 years. save hide report. Some days, you don't feel like doing anything, and that feeling isn't quite as fun as Bruno Mars makes it sound. Yeah, I got some friends. Interesting and inspiring story, John. I can't get motivated to do anything. A surprising number of us feel this way — especially now that we’re stuck in our houses 24/7 due to COVID-19, unsure of what the future looks like! My boyfriend has told me he feel something when we kiss, but he can't describe it. sea00115699 2017-08-19 23:59:07 UTC #1. Does anyone else feel like this? I suspect that what lies beneath the torture is that deep down I don’t believe I deserve anything good in my life; being gay AND Mexican American can do that to you. Well... except for maybe a good game of Uno Flip with house rules! Ian Sample reports ... which could be anything from … Thanks for sharing. Reply. Everybody has a phone in their hands and they are always after a woman to fuck. I don't enjoy anything anymore. Everything I do comes from my intellect. I don't even care about school anymore, and it's not that I'm lazy I just really don't have any motivation to do anything and don't get me wrong I'm a smart kid, I just can't find any reason to apply myself. Sort by. The only thing that has ever made me happy is music, I'd love to have a career in the industry but I don't know what I could do (I play no instruments, and I don't have a good enough voice). Topic: I don't have any motivation and cannot enjoy anything. Audiobooks are great for people who don’t have a lot of time to read, since you can enjoy books while doing almost anything else. Thousands of people can't stand everything that goes on at this time of the year. My partner and I thoroughly enjoyed them! I make a decision to make something or collect something, but my emotions never get involved. “It can be really discouraging to do something you usually love to do and find it isn't something you love to do anymore,” Nadeau says. Experts share the best ways to bounce back from this joyless state of mind. Psychologists are spending $30m on trying to find out. For the most part, the big to-do with intercourse has a lot more to do with ideas about gender and heteronormativity and procreation than it's ever had to do with sexual satisfaction. I never do anything that I don’t enjoy: Ruskin Bond Ranjani Rajendra Chennai, November 14, 2016 12:17 IST Updated: December 02, 2016 15:27 IST Ranjani Rajendra I was diagnosed with schizophrenia almost five years ago. I just go through the motions. I haven’t always been depressed. When i was 10 years old i moved to England from SA. I don't even know what I want, I don't want to waste away but I don't want to live. I don't enjoy anything anymore. One of the most frustrating things in life is losing the drive to do anything. I'm 18, have had sex with 8 different women, and just don't enjoy it. If sex just doesn’t feel great, start with a refresher course in sex ed, Dr. Batur explains. Professionally, this might mean they don’t find any real satisfaction from their job. You must have fun. Life is meant to be an experience. I’ve pushed myself to take up hobbies and stick with them but I still don’t feel anything. I'm just very unhappy with life, when i try things i just can't seem to enjoy it. I'm sick of all the meaningless talk! ... Cuz normally I don’t do anything about it. I've realized I just don't enjoy anything anymore and everything seems like a task, even the things I used to regard as 'fun'. It also affected my college life; I can't get myself to study and I miss lectures everyday. By Seraphina Seow. You must be crazy if you don't like this. 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